I don’t believe in corporal punishment when it comes to disciplining children and neither do my parents. So I have never laid a finger on my daughter.
I would much prefer to have a heated and honest argument which eventually ends in a better understanding for both parties than a quick smack on the buttocks. But when it comes to Azizul Raheem Awaluddin and Shalwati Nurshal, the Malaysian couple detained in Sweden for ‘abusing’ their son for not praying, I think I would sway in their defence.
Its quite easy why my rational logic tells me that corporal punishment isn’t the way to go with children, because it is just the Islamic way. Islam’s main principles are compassion, mercy and sincerity. And that is how I base almost all of my dealings in life with.
What is one of the most common phrase in Islam? Of course it is, bismillahirahmanirahim, which means, in the name of Allah, the most compassionate and most merciful. And there is ikhlas,or sincerity, which is the foundation of any and every single deed in Islam if it were to have any meaning at all.
The prophet Muhammad himself had never hit a woman, child or even animal. So that must say something about the negativities of corporal punishment. But now back to the issue with the Malaysian couple who has been detained while their four children have been separated from them and are in the Swedish foster care system. [Click to read the full article at English.AstroAwani.Com]